(picture courtesy of Grandma Deshazer) Jeremy and I are back from the beach - short trip I know - but it was the first of many little getaways that we plan to take just the two of us. Remember my new year's resolutions? We went the Oregon Coast (Lincoln City) and wonderful for us that our fab little "boutique" hotel was literally right on the beach. Now just to clear things up, Oregon and Washington's beaches are a bit different from other beaches in the world in that it was pretty much 55 degrees the entire time we were there. And that is typical summer weather for the OR coast beaches. But you do get to walk on the sand, look for seashells, hear the ocean waves from your hotel room, so it kind of counts as a beach getaway.
While we were away, I had some time to reflect on the current state of my life. With the latest cancer scare and all, I've been thinking a lot about what is going on with . What it boils down to is that I really love my life. I've mentioned this before, but I'll say it again - the older I get, the more comfortable I become in my own skin. I spent too much time in my 20's worrying about appearances and my position in life. Now, I can't even begin to tell you how much I love my little kiddos and how grateful and honored I feel that I get to raise them. They are such interesting little characters and they make life full of surprises - daily. Growing up I wanted to be the power CEO of some corporation. In a way, I got what I wanted. I'm the CEO of my family and the little boys that I get to raise.
I'm also so grateful the husband I have. We got married young - 21 years old - and we were young parents - 23 years old. I will admit that getting married young and having children young is not for everyone; I can see why the average rate of divorce is higher for younger aged marriages. But thankfully, I hit the jackpot and feel pretty darn fortunate that my soul mate for life is the one that shares my closet with me.
The last thing that I'm so grateful for today is where I live. I didn't really want to move to Salem because I really love the Seattle area. But Salem has become a nice little nest of quietness for our family. Kids are kids here. Neighbors are kind and invite you over for BBQs. You see the same people over and over and over again and soon you form a small town kind of bond with them. I shuttled my kids to several different VBSes over past few weeks and the people at the churches and parents volunteering could not have been nicer. I love my piano teacher that comes to my house to teach lessons then offered to nanny for me part time and then sometimes comes to my house on Sundays to pick up the kids for church when I am running late. I love my backyard neighbor who will call me up and says she hears Chase screaming and would I like for her to come get him and bring him to her house so I can have some peace and quiet. Yesterday another neighbor knocked on my door to give me this little magnet about having sons and I marveled at how neat it is that she was thinking of us. I am beginning to love where I live and maybe don't want to leave for a long time.
Gotta run, little ones call.